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Here’s What’s Wrong With the Dating Advice: “Don’t Sleep With Him Too Soon”

Women need to stop hinging their self-worth on whether a guy continues to pursue them after sex.

Photo by Davide De Giovanni.

The age-old dating advice for women is to wait to go to bed with a new man. If a woman has sex with him too soon, he’ll lose interest. She’ll never hear from him again.




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Mysterious Witt

Mysterious Witt

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