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How I Found Empowerment Spreading My Legs Wide Open During Sex

I used to be afraid of my own sexuality. Spreading my legs wide during sex meant accepting myself.

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Believe it or not, but once upon a time, I was terribly afraid of sex. As a younger woman, I couldn’t relax my body while a man was penetrating me.




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Emme Witt

Emme Witt

Sex writer. Soccer mom. Part-time dominatrix. Treat me to a coffee:

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