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I Am a 40-Year-Old Woman, and I Give Zero Fucks

I no longer aim to please

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This is a manifesto, of sorts. You have been forewarned.

I am a 40-year-old woman. I suppose the title already gave that away. In the words of my dear children, I have a smooshy tummy and droopy breasts. I have deepening crow’s feet around my eyes and those wavy lines across my forehead that I used to draw to…




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Kerala Taylor

Kerala Taylor

Writing about motherhood, work, race, and the end of the world. Aiming to make you laugh, cry, and want to punch something. Top writer in Parenting, Humor.

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