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I Realized I’m a People-Pleaser, and It’s Time to Stop.

There are more important things in life than being pleasant.

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Running the singing circle in Lake Atitlan, Guatemala, there was Casey and there was Ben. Casey was cute, and Ben wasn’t so much.

The problem was, Ben had shared his joint with me earlier that evening as I stood on the balcony watching the…




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