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I Was a Straight Girl Who Dated Lesbians Because I Was Desperate for Love

I never got the love I needed growing up and other women were an easy target for an attention fix.

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I’m a female who’s into men. My current partner is male. I consider myself to be straight. However, at a certain point in my life, when I was younger, I tried to date women.




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Elle Silver

Elle Silver

I write about divorce, relationships, and family. Everything I’ve learned about love, I’ve learned the hard way. You can learn from my mistakes.

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