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I Wish Feminism Didn’t Have To Be a Gender War

I never considered myself a feminist because I didn’t hate men

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I was 14 years old when I learned that women can be bitches. Although I had always predominantly hung out with boys, the few female friends I had turned against me as soon as I started dating.




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Kara Summers

Kara Summers

5x Top Writer. Raising awareness of emotional abuse and toxic relationships. Narcissistic Abuse Survivor.

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