Older Women Know What They Want in the Bedroom

Sex goddess or sexual anorexic — the choice is yours

Rhyena Halpern
The Virago

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Photo by LOGAN WEAVER | @LGNWVR on Unsplash

I can’t tell you how many younger men have told me that they like having sex with older women because: 1) They know what they want in the bedroom; and 2) They are sexually free.

I have to agree.

I am well into my sixties and I am having the best sex of my life.

So can you.

Beginning in my teens, I was sexually curious and adventurous. The times helped — women’s sexuality was finally out of the closet when I was a young woman and I got in the front of the line!

That is not to say I understood exactly what gave me pleasure and how to orgasm. Nor did I think my sexual pleasure was as important as a man’s. I wasn’t comfortable saying what I wanted. I put up with men’s sexual boorishness and selfishness because I thought I had to.

I put up with not coming because I didn’t know how to prioritize my pleasure. Sometimes I set the bar too low regarding whom I would take into my bed.

Beginning in my early thirties, I spent the next 31 years in two long-term relationships with men (8 and 23 years, respectively).

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Rhyena Halpern
The Virago

Proud member of 60+ women who are having the best sex of their lives club. Writes on Sex & Relationships, Wellness, Healing, Wise Eldering, Death & Dying.