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Sex Can Make You Sad, Here’s Why

Why post-sex care can make a big difference

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There's nothing less enthralling than feeling bad after consensual sex.

But it happens.

Turns out there is a term for it; post-coital blues or post-coital dysphoria if you are feeling scientific.




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