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The Married Man I Had an Affair with Is No Longer Married

Why would I care one way or another, though?

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I knew, even as I heard the news, that it shouldn’t matter. That it didn’t matter.

Because I didn’t want him, that’s the thing. I hadn’t wanted him for a long time. I had ended my affair with him. I had my eyes opened to his toxicity and his narcissism and I firmly…




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Em Unravelling

Em Unravelling

Lover of words, books, hiking, nature and big skies. Running is my favourite thing (after the words & the books). As feisty as I need to be.

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