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Your Narcissist Needs to Keep You Distracted

Can’t think clearly? That’s exactly what they want

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When I was living alone for the summer in which I left my husband (after my messy, all-consuming, entirely regrettable affair), I remained in touch — at first — with my extramarital lover.

This is how that went.




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