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  • Being Tall Made Me Feel Like I Wasn’t Woman Enough

    Being Tall Made Me Feel Like I Wasn’t Woman Enough

    You probably didn’t mean it — but your tall friends remember.
    Go to the profile of Emilia Vicemi
    Emilia Vicemi
    Jun 13
    Can I Get a Do-Over and Re-Divorce My Narcissistic Ex?

    Can I Get a Do-Over and Re-Divorce My Narcissistic Ex?

    The regret is real
    Go to the profile of Suzanna Quintana
    Suzanna Quintana
    Jun 12
    Why You Date the Way You Do

    Why You Date the Way You Do

    Could your attachment style influence which partners you choose?
    Go to the profile of Christine Rosas
    Christine Rosas
    Jun 12
    I Should Have Ran When I Heard the Way He Talked About Other Women

    I Should Have Ran When I Heard the Way He Talked About Other Women

    My toxic ex was constantly putting women down, including me
    Go to the profile of Jade M.
    Jade M.
    Jun 12
    When My Mother Was Dying, I Was Both Her Child and Her Chaplain

    When My Mother Was Dying, I Was Both Her Child and Her Chaplain

    Navigating a sacred tension as I supported my mother in her final days
    Go to the profile of Lizzy Dieng
    Lizzy Dieng
    Jun 11
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    Tables for Women, Chairs Only for Men

    Tables for Women, Chairs Only for Men

    How patriarchy prevents South Asian women from taking the center stage — quite literally!
    Go to the profile of Pallabi Dey Purkayastha
    Pallabi Dey Purkayastha
    Jun 10
    On the Edge of the Nest: What It Means to Let Go of Our Children

    On the Edge of the Nest: What It Means to Let Go of Our Children

    My daughter graduates from high school today, and everything is about to change —
    Go to the profile of Mary Wise (she/her)
    Mary Wise (she/her)
    Jun 9
    In India, a Marriage Isn’t Complete Without a Baby

    In India, a Marriage Isn’t Complete Without a Baby

    “Show me my grandson’s face next year”
    Go to the profile of Radha Mishra | Journalist | Writer
    Radha Mishra | Journalist | Writer
    Jun 8
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    Indian Women Can Never Adopt the 4B Lifestyle

    Indian Women Can Never Adopt the 4B Lifestyle

    Because they will be *forced* into doing it all against their wishes
    Go to the profile of Pallabi Dey Purkayastha
    Pallabi Dey Purkayastha
    Jun 7
    Stop Saying “Not All Men” — Prove It With This One Powerful Action

    Stop Saying “Not All Men” — Prove It With This One Powerful Action

    This is exactly how you make a woman feel safe.
    Go to the profile of Maria Cassano
    Maria Cassano
    Jun 7
    Abusers Hide in Plain Sight Because We’re Looking for Monsters, Not Nice Guys

    Abusers Hide in Plain Sight Because We’re Looking for Monsters, Not...

    The myths that perpetuate abuse
    Go to the profile of Suzanna Quintana
    Suzanna Quintana
    Jun 7
    Why Every Little Girl is Singing “Defying Gravity” Right Now

    Why Every Little Girl is Singing “Defying Gravity” Right Now

    How the musical “Wicked” became this generation’s anthem for female power
    Go to the profile of The Mindful Muse-Becca
    The Mindful Muse-Becca
    Jun 6
    Nice Girls Don’t Bother Anyone

    Nice Girls Don’t Bother Anyone

    The people-pleaser’s guide to saying what you mean, without emojis.
    Go to the profile of Ashleigh Riehl
    Ashleigh Riehl
    Jun 6
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