THE WIND PHONE

The Final Words I Couldn’t Read

The words we left behind

Toya Qualls-Barnette
The Wind Phone
Published in
6 min readNov 29, 2024

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Two girlfriends hugging each other.
Freepik (free ai image)The flame may be extinguished but her light will shine forever.

Friday before last, already feeling guilty for letting another week go by, I stood in the neighborhood CVS card section reminiscing about my dear friend I’ve known since ninth grade — perusing the multi-level greeting card display for the perfect written sentiment to convey my thoughts.

Not one measly card seemed worthy of sending by snail mail and a stamp.

They were bland, generic, with a one-size-fits-all slant on human emotion. When did we become so shallow? My friend was a fellow wordsmith. She would appreciate me writing a better one myself.

Two weeks ago, her husband said it was the one thing she would enjoy when I asked if there was anything she needed in her new assisted-living senior apartment with round-the-clock care. Painful to think about my most vivacious, optimistic friend, bedridden.

We met in Mrs. Carol’s AP English class on the first day of high school. By recess, we were fast friends like we’d known each other all our young lives.

She introduced me to her best friend since kindergarten; I introduced her to mine since seventh grade. We became the popular girlfriend crew of four fashionistas — the envy of our peers.

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The Wind Phone
The Wind Phone

Published in The Wind Phone

Loss, sadness, and transition is hard. Pick up the pieces and get creative. Death, near-death, divorce, loss, transitions, graveyard, cemetery, urn plans, complicated grief, hospice care, all issues related to end of life. Not accepting letters to deceased or poetry.

Toya Qualls-Barnette
Toya Qualls-Barnette

Written by Toya Qualls-Barnette

*14x Boosted writer | Writing about the impact of relationships |Contributor to Chicken Soup for the Soul| Dreamer | Mother| HSP in drag

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