THE WIND PHONE

To Heal—I Allowed Myself to be ‘Gutted’

It took the death of my dog to truly mourn my brother’s passing

Ryan Chin
The Wind Phone
Published in
3 min readJun 15, 2024

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Bone shaped grave maker on sand covered grave.
My dog’s grave at burial in 2002. — Author Photo

I looked at my van’s empty passenger seat for my furry co-pilot and bursted out crying. My first dog, Toughy, had been gone for months; I was driving a different van in a different country, and yet the pain followed me. I was 29 years old at…

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Ryan Chin
The Wind Phone

Author of The Big Head Diaries, stories of a lab from NZ, and Without Rain, a multimedia memoir. Email:thechinproject@gmail.com