Standing Up to Shaming Accusations

It’s never okay to misrepresent people to suit your narrative

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There’s an unspoken rule of etiquette on Medium: You don’t write about other members. You don’t drag writers and editors through the mud. You maintain a level of professionalism and respect.

So, when a writer opted to misquote me in a story about smart-shaming, I was taken…




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