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3 Cold, Hard Truths No One Tells You in Your Twenties and That You Only Integrate After 40
With real-life examples.
There are things you think you know, but you don’t truly feel them in your bones until life has kicked you around a bit.
Lessons you shrug off when you’re young, when the world feels wide open and the bitter moments seem far away.
Trust me, they’re closer than you think. That’s why I’m sharing three cold, hard lessons I’ve learned after 40 — each one backed by real moments from my life. Picture them in your mind. Don’t forget them. They might just help you out.
Lesson 1: If You Don’t Take Care of Yourself, No One Will
I didn’t think life could still shock me at 43, but this morning proved me wrong. What I saw hit me hard, deep in my gut.
I was walking back from a morning stroll with my mom when we ran into a local cleaner. She was chatting with the mother of the cleaning company’s owner. My mom, who knows them both, asked about the previous cleaner — the one this woman replaced.
The answer came like a punch: “She’s dying.”
My mom, stunned, said, “But wasn’t she getting chemo? I saw her not long ago; she seemed upbeat. I told her not to…
