5 Quick Signs You’re Not With “the One” And You’re Wasting Your Time

#4. They are Breadcrumbers.

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The highest-paying jobs in the world are predicting the future: CEOs, venture capitalists, analysts, etc.

People seek certainty, stability, and security when investing money, time, or attention.

It’s the same in relationships.

People try to give others an image of security and reassurance when dating.

However, no Harvard or Stanford diploma certifies that someone is valid or compatible with you in personal relationships.

That’s why I want to share with you five red flags that, if you pay attention, you can see at the beginning of any relationship, and they can save you a lot of heartache down the road.

1. They don’t have a system. Not having a system is the perfect system for failure. And trust me, you don’t want to bear an unnecessary burden from the beginning of the relationship. You can’t live on air. And I know it sounds fierce, but when you start with someone and see that your new partner has more dreams/projects/plans than systems to materialize them, you are in the middle of a sand castle. Be careful, or it will crumble on top of you, dragging you to the ground. Remember, dreams are fictions that only become reality through…