Three Tricks to Deal With Difficult People
#2. Learn the f*cking lesson.
Jerks are everywhere those days.
And it’s not that easy.
It’s not easy to deal with people who take pleasure in others people’s pain.
It’s not easy to stop caring what other people think, even less if they are your loved ones.
It’s not easy to get away from bullies because sometimes they are coworkers or even a boss. And we need the money for the 9 to 5 job to pay the bills.
I get it.
Leading with difficult people, it’s not as easy as the self-help gurus want you to believe, but here are some tricks that worked a lot for me in my journey. And it may work for you.
Let’s dive deep.
1. Please don’t take it personally.
We care too much about people’s opinions about us and too little about our opinion of ourselves.
That’s the whole point, baby: think less about what people say about you and more about what you feel about yourself.
Let me tell you something: if you won the lottery today, you wouldn’t give a sh*t what that person who usually messes with you says, would you?
