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Pretense Rarely Works in Any Relationship

Things you can do— make mistakes, be yourself, and provide solutions, or solve problems to honor yourself and your partner.

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Drop the pretense and practice what works in a long-term partnership.

In one of my social media groups, some well-mannered members complain that their spouses…




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