The Confessional
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The Confessional


An Open Letter to the Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents

When did you find out it wasn't you?

A mom holding up her son
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Dear “kids”,

When did you realize you weren’t the problem?

In therapy, I described living at home as living with a bear. A dormant bear. The only thing separating us was a…




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