Woman: Creative Piece

Following International Women’s Day last month, Frances Timberlake reflects on perceptions and realities of displaced women. The multiple roles they must often come to take on, and which they live with patience and fierce resilience, are a continuous source of inspiration.

Image for post
Image for post

They call her
Refugee
Exile
Stateless
- that’s her name here

But really she is
Woman
Sister
to Strength
contained in a small room shared with fourty
others
othered
by the life they came here to find

Woman
Teacher
Traveller
travelling further than she thought she would
further from the familiarity of warm hands
home foods
homes bombed
left alone with the unrelentless nostalgia of
departure

She’s Mother
who sits here with her children bottle-feeding (not breast, that’s dried up since coming here) and scrubbing trousers and stirring rice and watching her husband smoking
day in
day out
and chuckling to her neighbour about the absurdities and injustices of life wondering how long they have stayed here and how long they will stay here
A long time?
No problem. She’ll wash her hair and pin it up and now she’s swept the floor it’s nice and clean in here so she can sit and sew with donated cotton and maybe sneak a cigarette in the bathroom
ready to try the trucks again tonight

because she’s
Fighter
who receives the cruel fist of the world but
stands firm
in this resolve which holds her family’s lives together
sits firm
in this shelter where her thoughts her words her eccentricities her dislikes her youthful fears her adult hopes
find transient root once again
root that she will carry to the next place
and the next
and which make her infinitely more than
Refugee

Which make her
Woman
Bearer of
Life
lived by stamping feet
on harsh concrete
restlessly seeking a home like the one she left behind.

Frances is a long-term volunteer with the Refugee Women’s Centre in Dunkirk and is carrying out a research project into gendered experiences of displacement in northern France.

Medium is an open platform where 170 million readers come to find insightful and dynamic thinking. Here, expert and undiscovered voices alike dive into the heart of any topic and bring new ideas to the surface. Learn more

Follow the writers, publications, and topics that matter to you, and you’ll see them on your homepage and in your inbox. Explore

If you have a story to tell, knowledge to share, or a perspective to offer — welcome home. It’s easy and free to post your thinking on any topic. Write on Medium

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store