Humor/Music
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The problem with small talk is that it’s just that, Small. It lacks substance and generally wastes more time than it’s worth. However, when necessary, I will indulge to maintain appearances and the peace.
My go-to small talk subject, because of it’s universality, is music. “What is your favorite song? Who is your favorite band? and Do you play any instruments?” are my top three questions for how they fast-track to deeper conversations. A favorite song or genre can identify personality types and the ability to play music allows my small-talk partner opportunity to open up and talk more about themselves.
A couple decades ago, I was trapped, for lack of better phrase, conversing with a total stranger while mutual friends were busy elsewhere. I smiled and began with the favorite song question. To my chagrin, the short answer was…
