Where & How to Meet European Women — Best Places to Find a European Girlfriend

Philippe Berry
TheTravellingFrenchMan
9 min readJun 25, 2024

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Oh, mon cheri, I finally got to the topic you all have been asking for — how to find a European girlfriend. There is no better person to tell you about that, partly because of my natural French charm, which no lady in Europe can’t resist, and partly because I’ve been across Europe and know more than a thing or two about local dating as a foreigner.

So, if you are into Euro girl dating, let’s start exploring the region with the top places all over the world where you can find women of the European beauty type:

  • 📌 In the European Region: pick one of the best European countries to travel to and meet hot European girls — no chance of missing there.
  • 📌 Online: go for a niche dating site like SofiaDate, which specializes solely in European women.
  • 📌 In the United States: Utah, Oregon, and Washington.
  • 📌 In Australia: Melbourne and Sydney.
  • 📌 In Canada: Manitoba, Quebec, and Saskatchewan.

Whenever you’re traveling the world, finding a European woman, as well as girls of European origin, is not hard, as Europeans have spread all over the world and formed quite big communities. But some places are better than others, as are ways of searching for a hot European girlfriend as a foreigner.

That’s what I’m here for. Read on and enjoy me sharing all my tips collected through years of traveling! ⬇️⬇️⬇️

Meeting European women on dating sites

I won’t surprise you if I tell you that online dating is the most common way European singles meet nowadays. In the last ten years, the number of online daters has already grown by 35%, and it’s expected to double by 2028. So, as the chances of meeting single European girls online are pretty high, going for a good dating site or app should be your top choice.

I’ve traveled across Europe and used different online dating sites and apps, and I can say that they work best regardless of whether you’re in the country or abroad. They helped me get dates faster, as I wasn’t relying on luck to meet someone by chance but was choosing from women who were already interested in some type of dating.

For a foreigner, using a niche dating site specializing in European women is the best way to get a girlfriend from the region. Why?

  • Your options are not limited to a particular city or even country in Europe
  • It is accessible, as you can start dating from the comfort of your home
  • You don’t need to spend money on travel and dates before you know that you’re into someone
  • From my experience, most women on international dating sites are open to relationships with foreigners
  • It’s easier to manage the language barrier

However, when it comes to online dating, it’s important to emphasize that a lot depends on the particular service you use. If you use a non-reputable European dating site, your chances of having a positive online dating experience drop to zero.

⚠️ That’s why you shouldn’t join the first site you see on Google!

Taking some time to read reviews will save you time, money, and nerves. It’s important to stay away from scam sites. Still, it’s also key to find a platform that works for your particular dating goal, as some of the online dating spots are good for casual relationships, while others work best for users who are interested in serious dating.

So, if you were wondering how to meet European women quickly and safely, online dating would be my top recommendation. Here are some of the dating sites I’ve tested and that tend to work best across Europe.

  • Best for long-term committed relationships with European women 👉🏻 SofiaDate
  • Best for long-distance romance in Europe 👉🏻 GoldenBride
  • Best for serious relationships with Eastern European girls 👉🏻 UkraineBride4You
  • Best for dating European girls while not being limited to one region 👉🏻 TheLuckyDate

A short guide on how to get a European girl online

For all of my foreign friends who want to use online dating to get a European girlfriend, here are a few tips on how to date a European girl from your loyal TheTravellingFrenchMan:

  1. Pick a dating site that fits your dating goals.
  2. Join with a separate email you made specifically for dating (increases privacy).
  3. Help your profile stand out with hot photos (at least 1 full body pick) and an engaging headline or bio.
  4. Communicate your dating goals clearly to attract more like-minded singles.
  5. Approach gorgeous European girls you like and be active in replying.

Though I always emphasize that choosing the right platform is really important, it is. But it’s also key to understand that everything also depends on how active you are.

So, be active, and you will know how to date an Eastern European woman. Get yourself out there, approach at least 20–30 women per day, and use all the promotions that the site offers to reach a wider pool of potential candidates. However, don’t chat with more than three girls at a time, as it lowers the quality of conversation.

You need to remember that you are not just dating online for the sake of dating. Your mission is to build a real connection — a deep bond that will translate into a flourishing offline relationship.

Traveling to European countries

Another option for dating European women is to actually plan your Euro trip. You can go on a tour across Europe and enjoy all the romance of old-European cozy coffee dates, promenades along narrow streets and boulevards, and lots and lots of amazing one-in-a-lifetime memories.

A vacation in Europe is always a good idea.

As a Frenchman who adores traveling, I can rumble for hours about how great your time here can be. But I also need to be honest about the fact that traveling to Europe to see sights and enjoy amazing French cuisine (well, other countries do have some delicacies) is one thing, but when it comes to romance, it’s not always sunshine and rainbows.

Here are the main benefits and drawbacks of traveling to Europe.

Benefits

  • You can have a good vacation and enjoy the culture first-hand
  • Many single European women don’t mind dating a foreigner
  • You can enjoy IRL dates and see if there is a spark right away
  • You can have dates in the most romantic spots in the world, like Paris, Venice, or Santorini
  • You won’t feel a huge language barrier in most of the big European cities

Drawbacks

  • Europe is not cheap for traveling. If you are looking for cheaper travel destinations, I’d recommend Eastern Europe
  • You need to take at least two weeks off work
  • It’s easier to find a European girl for casual dating rather than a serious relationship
  • Your options are limited to the particular city you are in
  • There are no guarantees that you’ll find someone you like with limited time

As you can see, there are a bunch of drawbacks to this method. However, it can work. If you’re going to travel to Europe to find love, I recommend you check out the countries I’d recommend the most to singles who want to meet European ladies.

My personal top of European countries for foreigners

As you have already peeked at my list of the best European countries for foreigners, you might be surprised to find out why France is not there. Obviously, France is a top destination in Europe if you want to have a great vacation filled with breathtaking things and mouth-watering cuisine. However, although French women like to have fun with foreigners, most prefer to date locally. That’s why France is not there.

Once you get a taste of a Frenchman, you can’t change your preference😈.

But really, your chances won’t be high. For my top, I chose countries that are not just good to visit but are best for guys looking for a European girlfriend.

#1. Ukraine

  • Beautiful Ukrainian women like to date foreigners 👩‍❤️‍👩.
  • Ukraine is very travel-friendly and not expensive (you need around $1,500 plus plane tickets for a 2-week trip).
  • Eastern European dating has the charm of old-school romance.
  • According to research, the key things for Ukrainian women in a relationship are deep emotional bonds, sex, and having children together.

Read more about my experiences in Ukraine

#2. Poland

  • A beautiful country with an old-European vibe.
  • Polish women have a close-to-Western mentality.
  • The average age at first marriage is 26.6 years for females in Poland, so women are ready to start a family quite young.
  • Poland is also quite an affordable destination, which allows couples to have great dates while skiing in Zakopane, taking a boat ride on Masurian lakes, or exploring cozy cafes near various Polish castles.

#3. Czechia

  • The Czech Republic is gorgeous, with picturesque landscapes, stunning castles, and good beer.
  • Most women under 30 are single, and only 20–30% are married at age 25–30.
  • You can meet the most single Czech girls in Prague, Brno, and Ostrava.
  • Many local women are open to international relationships 😘.

These are my top three countries to check out if you are looking for a European girlfriend. They are great travel destinations, but most importantly, they have thousands of women who adore foreign guys.

Can you mean gorgeous singles in other European countries? Sure thing! But your chances in Ukraine, Poland, and Czechia are way higher (at least from my experience)!

Dating locally in your country

If you want to date a European girl and my previous options were not enough for you, you can always explore local dating. Sometimes, the best gems are hiding right under the nose.

I’ve previously mentioned that European people have formed big diasporas around the world, which makes it easy to find someone from Europe regardless of where you live. For example, if you live in the US, the best chances to find someone of European origin, according to statistics are if you are in:

  • 📍 Utah
  • 📍 Oregon
  • 📍 Washington
  • 📍Idaho
  • 📍Colorado

If you are more into Eastern European girls, I’d recommend you exploring:

  • 📍New York
  • 📍New Jersey
  • 📍 Massachusetts
  • 📍 Vermont
  • 📍 Connecticut

These spots have the highest Eastern European population in the US. The higher the population, the more chances you have to meet a gorgeous Eastern European girl near you.

But when it comes to looking for a potential girlfriend locally, I can’t hold on to the drawbacks that you need to be aware of:

  • Looking locally for a potential partner from Europe takes more time and effort than using online dating or traveling.
  • If you live in a state or city without a large diaspora of Europeans, your chances can be zero.
  • Your options are limited only to people who live in your area, which is usually not a lot, even with a big European diaspora.

Finding a European girlfriend locally is harder than using online dating and having limitless choices, but it can still work out. You also won’t have to make hard decisions about where you’ll live as a couple, as your girl is already in the US.

⚠️ Note: Some European girls join niche dating sites when living abroad. This can help you eliminate a few drawbacks from that list and enjoy all the perks of IRL dates.

Conclusion

As you can see, with travel accessibility and the ease of online dating, it’s not a challenge to meet European women. During my trips all over the world, I’ve noticed that a lot of European girls are really into foreigners, and international relationships are pretty common now. Also, many singles nowadays want control over their love lives; that’s why they join online dating sites where they can choose their future partners and not be limited only to guys living nearby, which makes European dating sites the best way to get a European girlfriend as a foreigner.

So don’t be afraid to extend your dating horizons and bonne chance on your dating search! ✨

Read more about my experiences

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Philippe Berry
TheTravellingFrenchMan

I’m Philippe Berry, a dating coach for men and your companion for love adventures