“Life= Struggle” Vs “Life =Stable ” Yes Guys! Pick Your Side

Sevda Çelik
Thought Thinkers
Published in
2 min readOct 28, 2022

Hey Folks!

This question popped into my head while I was witnessing a reality of mine.

Unfortunately, before I was whining a lot because I haven’t yet gotten the outcome of the effort and time that I have been put in for a long time.

I continuingly encountered hurdles and setbacks which made me burn out. It is an understandable point that people wish for a good result from their effort. In order to not waste my time, I set a certain time myself for bemoaning. After that, I put all of them aside and learn from my mistake and go ahead.

Let me explain how to obtain this mindset. My secret is to fail, fail, fail and stand up :). It is a sort of muscle to be developed. It hasn’t been enjoyable when going through tough times. There is nothing that makes me happier than resolving difficulties that I faced.

Yes, In my point of view, happiness is related to coming through hurdles and imagining myself as a better version of myself.
It motivates me to go ahead regardless of how tough is to combat.

Another key point is that I don’t mind starting from scratch.

Thanks to this mindset, I have been managing to overcome any issue and keep learning invaluable lessons that enable me to make a progress and be more aware of my weakness.

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What do you think about these equations?

It varies from personality to personality. If you are not fond of risk and opt for a stable life, it is unwise that attempt to adopt something that is not suitable for you.

If you get more benefits than a stable life why not live up to it?

The point is not to complain about your choice and keep educating yourself whatever your life choice.

“I’m so jealous of the 20-year later version of myself. Who knows what I will learn”. Haluk Bilginer

In conclusion,

But our brain is innately programmed to see various scenarios and options. It is not due to greed. Whatever your choice knowing your motive and the reasons assist us to be determined.

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Sevda Çelik
Thought Thinkers

🕊️ Mostly write poems, creative story and general thoughts.