It Was Rare, I Was There: Taylor Swift in Munich, Germany

My two teens and I traveled nearly 6,000 miles to see the Eras Tour. It was stressful, expensive, chaotic — and completely worth it.

Dana DuBois
Three Imaginary Girls

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Back of child’s head staring at confetti in a dark arena
My younger daughter gazes in awe at the confetti explosion that concludes the Eras Tour show in Olympiastadion, Munich, Germany. Photo by author.

Sitting at our local airport terminal awaiting our first flight, an older gentleman struck up a conversation. He was a surgeon, flying to San Diego for a nurse’s retirement party. I told him we were heading overseas, and our first stop was to see Taylor Swift in Munich.

“She’s certainly a marketing genius,” he replied.

“She is,” I said. “But she’s also an incredible singer-songwriter and a once-in-a-generation performer.”

“Well, she sure writes about all her ex-boyfriends,” he chuckled knowingly — even as surely as he knows nothing.

I’ve heard this dismissiveness before, and not just from older men. But there was a special sort of derision in his voice, an invisible eyeroll negating my opinion because, well, Taylor’s a beautiful female pop star. So surely, her work isn’t important, or relevant, to him. And therefore, it’s not important.

Conversation over, I turned back to my iPhone and he headed to his flight.

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Dana DuBois
Three Imaginary Girls

Publisher for Pink Hair & Pronouns and Three Imaginary Girls. Boost nominator. I'm a GenX word nerd living in the PNW with a whole lot of little words to share.