3 Surefire Ways for Digging Yourself Out of a Career Rut
A few simple strategies for when you’re feeling most stuck at work
Your career is one of the most important parts of your life. It’s where you dedicate 60% of your waking hours and where you develop much of your identity as a person. That’s why when you find yourself stuck in a rut, it can be devastating.
“If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing you need to do is to stop digging.” — Will Rogers
Less than a year out of college, I found myself in a bit of a rut. Although I had a seemingly great job, I wasn’t happy with the work I was doing, and it started to become a real problem.
I was physically dragging myself out of the apartment everyday just to get to work. Then, once I got there, I would spend half the day scrolling through social media, trying to find a mental escape from my current reality.
This may have seemed a bit drastic, because on the outside, I had the perfect job: great pay, solid benefits, and a healthy work-life balance.
The thing was, none of that mattered. I simply wasn’t happy with what I was doing, and found myself slipping deeper and deeper into a career rut.
Unfortunately, this feeling of being “stuck in a rut” isn’t uncommon.
According to a study produced by Rasmussen College, almost one fifth of Americans are unhappy at work.
That means, someone on your team right now, one of your co-workers, is miserable with what they are doing.
And for something that you spend over 60% of your waking hours on this planet doing, it seems irresponsible to be doing something you don’t enjoy.
But before we tackle the problem head on, let’s dig into why this happens in the first place.
Why do we fall into career ruts?
At it’s bare bones, a career rut happens when two things occur:
- You aren’t happy with your current work conditions
- You feel like there is no hope for positive change
On the outside, it looks different for everyone: you don’t like your boss, you aren’t being promoted, the company isn’t investing into your personal growth, you can’t move up, or the company doesn’t align with your values.
On the inside, however, it’s almost always the same: you are incredibly stressed out, anxious about the future, unsure of yourself and your career, and are constantly distracted.
When these two things happen simultaneously, it’s the perfect storm for a career rut.
In my own career rut, I knew something had to change because I was miserable.
I wasn’t excited about the work I was doing (or the city I was living in) and had no idea what to do to change my situation. I couldn’t see a way out and was continuing down the black hole of nothingness.
Luckily, I was in so much pain that I just needed to do something — anything — to get me out of my funk.
I began to experiment and try different things. I started reading, going to seminars, hired a coach, and even started a side business.
All of these different experiments (eventually) helped me dig myself out of this rut and rebuild my career.
Of course, hindsight is 20/20. While I wish I had more tools to help me, hopefully, the lessons I learned can help you through your rut.
Here are the 3 most effective ways that I’ve found to help you quickly (and easily) get out of the funk that’s holding you back.
1. Don’t Ghost Yourself
The first and most important thing you can do to get out of your rut, is to face your problem head on.
If you don’t know what’s wrong, how are you going to fix it?
It’s like going to the doctor when you’re sick: you come in with symptoms and they prescribe a specific medicine after doing a full exam.
It would be ridiculous for a doctor to prescribe medicine without knowing what’s wrong with you in the first place.
However obvious this may seem, we rarely take the time to do this in our personal life.
Just like in modern dating, we ghost ourselves more often than we stand someone up on a date.
Think about it: when was the last time you actually spent time analyzing where you are in your life and career?
Your answer is probably like everyone else’s — it’s been awhile.
Once you begin to figure out what the protagonist is to your misery, you can start to see things much clearer.
Getting this right could mean having a solid foundation for getting out of a career rut. Getting it wrong could mean you’re giving the wrong medicine to a healthy body (i.e. wasting your time).
2. Decision Making, Made Easy
Anytime you come across a major decision in your life, you will always lean on your personal values, even if you don’t consciously know them.
Although this might seem silly, knowing your values is crucial to radically turning around your career rut. It’s not some cult that corporate trainers want you to join.
When we are in a career rut, one of the most important things we are looking for is a sense of clarity. We feel bogged down just don’t know what we want.
In fact, according to the Rasmussen study mentioned earlier, 22 percent of adults reported being unable to see a clear career path in their current job.
In order to find that clarity (the clarity that ⅕ Americans don’t have), you need to start with what guides you every single day — your values.
If you haven’t clarified what you want in life, how do you expect to get there? The truth is: your values matter.
Nailing down your values will help you get crystal clear on how you want to run your life. They will be the compass that drives you in the right direction. Decision-making will be a breeze because you will have your own compass in the back of your head.
Is this something that aligns with my values?
Regardless of your career, what job you are doing, or what business you’re running, there will be shitty times.
There will be moments that you don’t enjoy and that can easily throw you into a rut.
But if you know your values and your work is aligned with those values, you will be able to get over those short term bumps in the road.
3. Muscle Up…Buttercup
Most likely, you know what you are good at and what you suck at.
For instance, I am a pretty awful swimmer. I know that (and so do all my friends).
I also know that I’m a pretty good hiker.
So, I stick to the mountains and avoid long swims in the Atlantic.
Just like me, you also have unique strengths that have gotten you to this point in your career.
But when you are in a career rut, you tend to forget about them.
You are too distracted with the problems going on, which is taking away from your productivity and overall happiness.
Psychologists in the U.S. found that people who tried using their strengths in new ways each day for a week were happier and less depressed six months later.
Bottom line: when you do something you are good at, you are happy. When you do something that you suck at, however, you can struggle.
That’s why when you are stuck in a rut, doing more of what you are good at, is a good thing.
If one of your top strengths is Restorative, find more ways to solve problems at work.
If your top strength is Command, find a way to challenge others in a positive way and encourage them to challenge you too.
The more you lean on your strengths, not only will you be happier but you will also start producing more, which can hopefully bootstrap you out of your current job and on to something better.
Take It to The Next Level
Going through a career rut is not an easy thing to do, especially alone.
There are things you might be missing, small details that you are overlooking — all which could mean the difference between having an average job and a truly fulfilling career.
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Originally published at www.scottabradley.com on October 3, 2017.