You have probably noticed that when you ask your friend, mom, brother, (whomever), what they want, they are to say the least vague. And will respond with something resembling:
“I Know Exactly What I Want… Kind of”
I’m going to share a quote but don’t freak out, you’ve not missed church, and I haven’t suddenly become a preacher. Nonetheless, I’d like to share with you a powerful Biblical quote that’s a great illustration of what I’m about to talk about.
“For to those who have, more will be given; and from those who have nothing, even what they have will be taken away.” (Matthew 13:11–12)
How’s that for a bum deal? Or is it?
Well when we refer back to the fact that most people have a pretty hard time actually deciding what they want, it actually begins to make sense.
Bottom line: We cannot manifest specifics with a general request.
Stay with me here because the great news is this, once you have specifically outlined what it is that you want, then you can begin designing a plan to achieve it. In the words of one of my songs from the album Resonations (available on iTunes and CD Baby): “Get Clear.”
Please pay attention here because I have a warning for you. The ego-mind may have some challenges with you actually achieving that outcome and it may try to sabotage you by whispering stuff in your ear that will take you off target. So to make sure you stay on target I implore you to keep a success journal and monitor your progress.
DO NOT change what it is you are going for until you achieve it. That way you can acknowledge your success. I can’t overstress the importance of this. If you keep changing your desired outcome, how will you ever know when you achieve it?
In the next article, I will share with you the importance of developing a hunger around what you want.
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