WORDS CREATE YOUR WORLD
I read the book 1984 in 1994.
At the time I was a typical 14-year-old boy; concerned mainly with things most 14-year-old boys are; music, computer games, girls. Not necessarily in that order. Yet I also remember even then being shocked at how shrewd this book was. As if Orwell had just gotten the date wrong by a decade.
Back then Big Brother the TV show was still just a twinkle in the black, sharks-eye of its creators, but I still saw in those pages, not just a work of fiction but a grim foreshadowing of what was actually starting to become a reality.
Orwell, writing across time was speaking to me of a future that was approaching at a lightning speed.
However, here is not the place to tackle the current plight of our culture or indeed civilisation. There are far, far better political and strategical minds than mine available to comment on these matters. Rather I am interested in exploring the semantics of language used in Orwell’s seminal work — and more so, what we can take from this that will help you use language to create your own world.
You see, what I found most compelling while reading 1984 was the controlled deconstruction of language imposed by the totalitarian state Oceania.
The premise is simple but profound; if we don’t have the language to describe something, then we cannot think about it.
If we are unable to articulate our anger at the system, then we don’t know how to act on it. Winston Smith cannot conceptualise a revolution because he has no word for revolution.
The idea that language and thoughts are intrinsically entwined is by no means a new notion. Indeed, the concept can be traced back all the way to Plato and indeed thinkers throughout the ages, from St Augustine to Immanuel Kant all realised the power of language to experience and define our world.
In 1984 the prescribed language; ‘Newspeak’ reframes negative concepts with their more affable counterparts to keep the civilians calm and subservient. The idea a devious switcheroo; create new positive associations with once terrifying administrations.
In this vein then the Ministry of War becomes the Ministry of Peace; the Ministry of Plenty deals with starvation, the Ministry of Truth with lies, the Ministry of Love, torture. As the novel goes on we realise just how much the populace of Oceania are manipulated through the alteration of everyday thought and language. It would be brilliant if it wasn’t so chilling.
There is a positive message however in all of this; you too have power over your language which in turn is power over your thoughts.
When you change the language you use to describe yourself and your experiences you begin to influence your thoughts. By doing so you alter the way you see the world.
Thoughts are formed due to lots of different factors; ego, past experiences, fears, ingrained beliefs. All these things are designed to protect you, to keep you from harm, which of course is important, it’s your survival instinct at work.
But what happens when these instincts become too over protective and begin to have a detrimental effect?
It’s natural to have moments of doubt of course, but when these moments grow into days, or weeks then you can find yourself in a negative tailspin, focusing too much on unhelpful thoughts, begetting even more unhelpful thoughts.
Thankfully we do have some power over this if we focus our attention elsewhere. By consciously and habitually changing the language you use to talk to yourself you can free yourself from the downward spiral of limiting beliefs. By actively using positive language you in turn change how you experience yourself. You begin to see your world differently.
Things that once seemed impossible suddenly feel possible.
As you believe, so you act. As you act, so you become.
Just like in 1984, the awareness of the semantics in language is what counts and it’s this distinction which separates the idea of conscious thought from ideas such as the Law of Attraction.
If we are to accept as true — that what we focus on creates our reality — we must understand that this isn’t simply because wanting something enough magically ‘manifests’ it into existence. But rather, when you actively set intentions, change how you see things and rid yourself of negative self-talk you begin to focus on what is possible. You don’t so much conjure it up as start to expect it. When you expect it to happen then your subconscious spends all its time trying to support this ‘reality’.
The structure of your language can strongly influence or determine the way you interact with and experience this reality. For instance, the oft-quoted fact that Inuit people have fifty words for snow means that they can think more intelligently about it. Whereas people in hotter climes are happy with just the one word Inuit communities need to paint a broader picture, their language contains more sophisticated and subtle words to help them distinguish different forms with different effects and uses.
When we actively use language that supports our goals and fuels our self-belief it helps us believe in our abilities to achieve these goals all the more.
This is summed up nicely with the story of Roger Bannister and his amazing achievements. Before Bannister ran a mile in three minutes fifty-nine point three seconds in 1954 no one in the world thought it was possible. In fact, up until the moment he completed his run in under four minutes’ people actually thought a human might die or burst into flames if they ran that fast. It was a truly remarkable feat made possible by training and self-belief.
Yet, what makes the story even more remarkable is that this record was beaten just forty-six days later and after this people from all over the world began running their own four minute miles, achieving something that just a few years earlier everyone thought was physically impossible to do. And the difference? They now believed it was possible.
Because of what Daniel Kahneman labelled the Availability Bias we give extra weight to that which is most easily available to us. This mental shortcut operates on the notion that if we remember one outcome more clearly than another, it must be more important, it must be true. Often this can have negative effects on us — such as a recently reported plane crash giving us disproportionate fears about flying — yet used correctly this bias can also be tweaked to help us achieve better.
With this bias in mind we can consciously engage in recalling our past successes so that when the time comes we are much more likely to believe we can do what is needed.
Indeed, studies have shown that when you make a point of focusing on times in life when you’ve achieved good results, your subconscious aligns with this belief. To the point where, over time, because you’re focusing on success you start to notice more opportunities for that success everywhere you go, re-tuning your mind to seek it out. Just like the person who focuses solely on their bad luck and, thus, always seems to have bad luck, you can start to actively use past experiences to fuel confidence. The way you make something possible is if you think it is possible.
You think you can because the language you use and the thoughts you think inform you of such.
As Shakespeare wrote so eloquently in Hamlet, over four hundred years ago; ‘there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so’.
Everything that happens to us is filtered through our own perception of what is happening, by the frame we choose to experience it through and the language we use to describe it. What this means though of course is that if we can focus on bad stuff and make ourselves feel bad, we can also play our imagination at its own game.
Because of cognitive dissonance our subconscious mind cannot hold two opposing thoughts at the same time, so when we use negative language to describe ourselves our brain seeks out information to back up what we’re saying. Yet on the flipside of this, if the language we use about ourselves is focused on positivity and success, because of this dissonance the brain will then find ways to prove we are indeed happy and successful and ignores any contrary evidence.
The quality of your thoughts and the language you use is highly connected to the quality of your life. In many ways it’s almost magical. Indeed the Aramaic word Abra Cadbra actually means I create as I speak!
When we use positive language and think great thoughts we create ourselves as the person we want to be, the person who gets the results we want to get. This in turn fuels our feelings and actions and interpretations of the world. Then for instance if you have two options presented to you; to try for a big win with the possibility of failure, or to not try and stay safe — you are now likely to risk it if you are always focused on achievements.
You’ll have the confidence to succeed because your thoughts and language have created a truth where you take the necessary action, almost automatically.
This semantics of language can be explored in even smaller ways too. When I first began doing deep work on myself I started by writing out a list of morning success rituals; things I knew I needed to do each day to propel me forward. These were activities such as going to the gym, scripting out my day, meditation, drinking green juice. Most likely the sort of things most people interested in self-growth would have on such a list. However, for a long time I found it hard to stick to these rituals, sure I did them whenever I could, but I would err, some mornings I would fancy a lie in over jumping out of bed at 5.30am and hitting the gym.
Now we might say that the problem here was that I was yet to make these things habitual, that they were yet to become a part of my world. However, I believe that the real reason why I now do all those things without fail every morning is simple, I started to refer to them not as rituals but as ‘disciplines’. It was this simple distinction in language that made all the difference for me. It was a word that resonated with me.
Whereas for me ‘rituals’ meant an activity done often, perhaps even in a stuffy, religious context, ‘disciplines’ had more depth, more history behind it. For me it inspired feelings of control, of adhering to a superior code of behaviour. Self-mastery. It made me want to be more. It made me want to try.
The subconscious mind doesn’t judge thoughts as good or bad, or useful or not useful. It doesn’t know. It just goes where you tell it to go most-often. It doesn’t know if a thought came from some deep issues or past experiences or whether it simply came from your conscious self. It simply hears the language you speak most often and then acts accordingly.
So right now if you’re having trouble finding the motivation to do what needs to be done, remember it might just have something to do with the words you’re using about yourself or your intentions.
Words create your thoughts; your thoughts create your reality. Just like in 1984, if you actively take control over the language you use to define your world you can change it. But this time for the better.
If there is no word for ‘cannot’ you only ‘can’.
Matt Hattersley helps people leave the 9 to 5 behind and make a prosperous living doing what they love. For a limited time you can watch a FREE reply of his recent Masterclass: http://www.matthattersley.com/masterclass-vid1/