How to Create Rare And Life-Changing Relationships With Anyone (even your heroes)

The secret of getting others to help you… because they want to. And for no other reason. Not because they were manipulated to help you. And not because they feel compelled to.

Benjamin Hardy, PhD
Apr 5, 2018 · 8 min read
  • Transformational

They Are Based On Giving And Grace

Recently, I almost got kicked-out of my PhD program at Clemson University. I’m a non-traditional graduate student with non-traditional goals. Sometimes, it’s been scary to be open and honest about my goals.

There Is No Score Keeping

In transactional relationships — everything is tracked and measured. The store clerk isn’t going to give you a few bucks off because you’re a good person.

Everyone Feels Protected

NBA All-Star, Mark Eaton, recently wrote an important book called THE FOUR COMMITMENTS OF A WINNING TEAM. The fourth commitment is that every person on the team or in the relationship needs to feel protected.

Others Are Given Credit For Your Success

They Say “I Love You” To Each Other

Conclusion

How many of your relationships are transformational?

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