Rita Wilson: “Thoughts Are Things and Mean Something”

The actor, producer, and singer/songwriter on the lesson she learned from the book that changed her life.

Thrive Global
Jan 26, 2017 · 2 min read

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Thrive Global: What’s the first thing you do when you get out of bed?
Rita Wilson: I say a prayer of gratitude.

TG: What gives you energy?
RW: Music, napping and exercising.

TG: What’s your secret life hack?
RW: Saying “no” to things that aren’t necessary.

TG: Name a book that changed your life.
RW: An old little book called As A Man Thinketh, which taught me that thoughts are things and mean something.

TG: Tell us about your relationship with your phone. Does it sleep with you?RW: NO! It is in a galaxy far, far, away.

TG: How do you deal with email?
RW: I go through phases of returning emails rapidly, or holding and then returning at one time when I have 20 minutes.

TG: You unexpectedly find 15 minutes in your day, what do you do with it?RW: Listen to music.

TG: When was the last time you felt burned out and why?
RW: Last night! I had a long day of meetings and my brain ceased to function later that night. LOL. I went to bed.

TG: When was the last time you felt you failed and how did you overcome it?
RW: It was a few years ago. I grieved for awhile and then got stronger because of it.

TG: Share a quote that you love and that gives you strength or peace.
RW: “To thine own self be true.” Polonius speaks it to Hamlet.

Rita Wilson is an actor/producer/singer-songwriter. Listen to her self-titled new album in iTunes.

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