Valuing the Treasure of Family
Lessons for strengthening the foundation of family.

When I think back on my childhood, I have many fond memories that I could share. However, some of the best memories were times that I spent with my family. We have always been a close family and I have always respected my parents for putting family first. They were very busy and worked really hard to ensure that my brother and I had a better life. In the midst of all of that, they never neglected family and they always made it a priority. I can still recall memories of us playing in the yard or having family meetings. Of course, I cannot forget to mention family dinner. My mother shared with us how eating as a family was important to her. It was something that she observed growing up and a tradition that she wanted to continue with us.
I can remember my mom getting dishes out of the cabinet and talking with my brother and I. Then she wanted us to help her set the table. While none of this is very exciting for boys, I look back on those conversations now and I understand exactly what she was trying to do. My mother was working hard to instill a strong sense of love and family in us. I remember us setting the table and everyone gathering around the table to eat. I can still see the joy on my mother’s face as she saw the four of us sitting around the dinner table. I appreciate those times now because I look at the world and I see the breakdown of families. It is sad that families no longer eat together. More importantly, it is devastating to see how technology has destroyed our lives. Everyone is so distracted and it seems that we have forgotten what is truly important.
As I reflect on my childhood, I am also reminded of my great grandmother. Some of the best memories centered around her house and all of the delicious food. My great grandmother was an incredible cook. Nothing brought her joy like cooking for the family and seeing us all together. I can recall many Sunday afternoons at her house. We would leave church and everyone would gather at her house for amazing Sunday meals. While the food was incredible, the thing that I loved most is that the family was together. The house was filled with laughter, joy and the aroma of great food. Honestly, family has been a pillar in my life. We’ve faced many hardships and tragedies as a family. However, we have always leaned on each other for strength in those difficult times.
Unfortunately, my grandmother passed away years ago. It was a big loss to our family and we were left with a huge void. The holidays and special occasions were never the same. We made a commitment as a family that we would create new memories. So we continue to get into the kitchen and create new traditions. I have new memories in the kitchen with my family on major holidays. I can smell the aroma of some of my favorite dishes and once again I hear the laughter and joy of my family. In addition, we continue to sit around the table and make family a priority. I could not imagine my life without family. Our families truly enrich our lives and bring us so much joy. I challenge you to put the phone down and put the tablet away. Cut off the television this week and gather around the table. Some of life’s greatest moments happen around the dinner table with family. Life is short and time is precious. Take advantage of every moment that you have to spend time with your family and friends. Do not just fill your house with things. Fill your home with love!

