Your story is unique, here is why we need to find our “tribe”.
Whatever you do, do you.
The rest will follow.
It can be hard to balance a full cup evenly.
When we try to please others, juggle 1,000 things, and be someone we are not, we begin to not only limit ourselves, but we also make it difficult to help others.
Authenticity is the key to finding our niche.
Whatever your niche is, own it.
It can be anything, as long as it resonates with you.
If you are drawn to business, make that your niche. If you are all about health, then dominate that field.
It can be anything. Literally.
Music, love, loneliness, success, writing, rights, health, fitness, cars, school, happiness, depression, marketing, planes, skin care, entrepreneurship. It is limitless, you can [fill in the blank.]
There is no way to please everyone, and we shouldn't strive to.
We will thrive doing the things that we are passionate about. By being authentic ("flaws" and all.)
To reference the cup metaphor again, just how it can be hard to keep balance with so many acts and responsibility to maintain.
It becomes easy to fill other cups when we build a supportive following that is close by so we can overflow into the others.
When I am doing what I love and what speaks to me, that is when I generate the strongest response from others.
People will judge us either way. They also won't "care" for too long. So we may as well do what we love and what we want.
There is no right or wrong way to live our life. What is right for someone else doesn't mean it will be for us. Everyone is going through their own trials and tribulations, with their own agenda that needs to be fulfilled.
We are made different for a reason.
Once we are truly living authentically we will attract those who we are not only meant to help but also connect with.
Nothing really good happens within our comfort zones.
One of the best ways to do this is to become so comfortable being yourself.
By speaking our minds, killing doubt, breaking outside our comfort zones, and doing the things that make us feel alive.
Making a list of everything that speaks to us will help us visualize what we want and who we are.
Then we can try to do at least one thing on the list everyday. Before we know it, it will become second nature. There is nothing that is to small, or too big.
Success in anything in life is a lot of little things done right everyday. It doesn’t matter how fast we move forward as long as we don’t stop moving in the direction we are aiming to go.
At the end of the day we can ponder about everything that gone right and why. We can also think about everything that didn't go as good as it could have.
The secret to this practice is to also think about how we could have done it better (the good and "bad".)
There is nothing that you can't do!
If know one has told you today, I believe in you!
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