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Forget Soulmates and Twin Flames. Here’s Why the “Bonnie and Clyde” Dynamic of Relationships Work
If we can look past the damage they did, we will see a better way
I’ve been single for seven years now. Most of the time was by choice. I was working on myself and the other time was spent looking for a soulmate.
I met soulmates for sure. Men with whom my mind and emotions became so entangled, it formed a soul tie. A tie that dragged me along as the strong man pulled me in all places, thrashing me about in waves of emotion.
And I have met what the world calls Twin flames and God knows I have gone to the moon and back three times and it's still not enough.
Is that what God intended? A relationship dynamic where one person runs and the other chases forever? A soulmate by which my soul is tied?
I can’t see how any of that empowers a person. If anything, those I have labeled soul mates and twin flames have caused me so much pain and suffering as any kind of earthly attachment leads to.
Souls aren’t meant to be tied. Souls are meant to be wild and free!
The concept of soulmates makes little sense to me now after learning about the nature of the soul.