4 Ideas to Help You Make the Most of Your Single Life

Check your bank balance.

Anggun Bawi
Loveful Mind

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Photo by Ivana Cajina on Unsplash

People will question your love life when you are single. They see you as an incomplete human being, especially when you are approaching the late 20s. It is what it is.

When I was single, no one asked me how happy I was with my life and that I don’t need to have a man in my life to make me feel “whole.”

People around me caring too much about the fact that I was still alone, and if you live in a small village, not having a fiance or at least a boyfriend in your mid-twenties is a big issue.

But I didn’t give in and settled for less just because of how society expected me to.

Taking the time to find someone who’s right for me has been a game-changer in my love life, and staying single for quite some time has made me realize how important it is to make myself happy before I do it for someone else.

This might sound cliche, but it’s true that you can only love someone better when you don’t hate yourself. I’ve been there where I rushed myself getting into a relationship while I knew I still had a lot of things that I needed to work on internally.

As a result, it failed miserably, and my issues just added up.

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Anggun Bawi
Loveful Mind

writing on trauma, dating and relationships - in the hope that you'll feel less alone on your journey | lives in vancouver 🇨🇦