7 Reasons Why I Broke Up with My Exes
Red flags you should watch out for
When I was younger, I didn’t know a healthy relationship needed boundaries, compromises, and commitment.
I rushed into relationships when I fell for a man and felt comfortable in his presence. I didn’t even think about what kind of standards and values were important to me.
When something bothered me, I told myself: “Well, that’s just how he is, and I have to live with it.”
Today I know setting boundaries, feeling commitment, and making healthy compromises are part of every good romantic relationship. My past relationships and almost-relationships showed me the necessity to discover what’s important to me to find fulfilling love.
Here are 7 red flags you should keep in mind when you just started dating someone new.
Don’t rush into a relationship but find out your priorities to get what you deserve!
1. He doesn’t speak the same love language.
During my first romantic relationship, I felt starved of love. Back then, I wasn’t able to name or justify this feeling of emptiness, but today I’m convinced that our love languages weren’t compatible at all.
