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I Kept A Spreadsheet of My Dates Over 8 Months. Here’s What I Learned.

A rational approach to online dating


It was 2019 and I had just moved to a new city.

You know what that means — time to explore! And dating just happened to be a way to simultaneously explore the city, and well, date — two birds with one stone.




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Tessa Char

Tessa Char

Mental wellness advocate via MindTerra | (W)righting the wrongs in the world in justice, feminism, dating, self-help, and well-life.

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