Getting To Know & Love Dad After He Is Gone

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No one ever came out and said don’t love dad, but the message was conveyed. He was always wrong. He was late, an irresponsible ass hole, made mom cry, and never where he was supposed to be. He was wrong for drinking, for wanting to be an entrepreneur, for not being home, for not helping, for helping, for mowing in his three-piece suit, and for insisting on watching what he wanted on TV. I don’t even know if he was…




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