V-Day + 53
Sorry for the delay š

Itās been quite a while since the last update. Iād like to blame it on life, or being busy, or being ill. But if I canāt be honest with a world full of strangers, whatās the point of a blog? š¤
The truth is, itās been a dearth of motivation coupled with great shows on Netflix and Hulu. š If youāre looking for something to binge:
Netflix: Black Lightning, The Good Place, Orange is the New Black, and lots of comedy specials.
Hulu: Dirk Gentlyās Holistic Detective Agency, Black-ish, Cloak & Dagger, and pretty much anything from Marvel. Though I didnāt care for Agent Carter or the last season of Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D..
I thought about opening my apps to check my history for more ideas. Then I decided it wasnāt worth the risk of saying āI can finish writing after I watch the last few episodes of Preacher. š
Enough rambling, on to the real reason you came here: progress, trials, and triumphs.
Progress
Iām up to the third dilator! Itās sometimes a wee bit too big to start out with. When that happens, I loosen up with #2 for ten minutes or so first.
Dr. Alan Dulin, who I greatly recommend, jumps from the blue on on that site to the orange one. Thereās a purple one between that Iāll probably buy. Itāll ease the transition since thereās quite a size difference otherwise.
An interesting and in my opinion hilarious thing happened my first attempt at the blue one. It got stuck!
Turns out that itās diameter was a wee bit larger than that of my vaginal opening. That created a vacuum! It took a lot of twisting and a little more lube to get it free. That was accompanied by a squooshing, popping sound as air and lubricant erupted.
See, I told you it was hilarious!
Trials
There havenāt been a lot anymore. I know exactly how to dilate now, so thereās no more unexpected pain. Iām back at my desk so collaborating with my team is vastly easier.
About the only thing I can think of is that taking long lunches means leaving work later. I used to skip lunch altogether. On the rare occasions that I ate, Iād grab something at the overpriced but convenient place on the first floor and take it back up to my desk. Now Iām leaving for about an hour, hour in a half in the middle of the day. Instead of getting out at 4:30 I leave around 5:30. Thankfully I recently moved a lot closer to work (15 minutes instead of 45) so I get in earlier, too.
Triumphs
I hear, read, and watch on YouTube a lot of trans women say that dilation is uncomfortable and non-sexual. In my experience that isnāt true all the time⦠which is awesome!
My second time orgasisming after surgery was right after dilation. My āhold it in handā had been a little lax. That meant slippage followed by pressure to get it back to full depth. That meant a little of the old āin-and-out. Solo shtupping. Lawful carnal knowledge.ā It took me just a few seconds of that to figure out that my future was so bright my little ladyās gotta wear shades.
I was more than fine and I know exactly where the money went. It was a powerful force. Some might even say simply irresistible
Yes, I mixed my song metaphors. Get over it. š
It went fast! It was powerful! It was expansive, by which I mean it wasnāt limited to the genitals like boygasms used to be. And it lasted quite a while, with quivering, jumpy aftershocks for at least thirty minutes.
I highly recommend it!
All in all, I give my experience a hardy āWoot!ā Or for the older gamers amongst us, a shouted āHoody ho!ā

