Member-only story
Sex With Men, Sex With Women
Which is better? A bi perspective.
As someone who enjoys sex with both men and women, I have been asked this many times — which do I prefer?
Well, I have many more long relationships with men, so I guess I am a person who prefers to have a boyfriend. But if it were just about sex, it would undoubtedly be I prefer to have sex with women.
The answer is quite simple — women are choosier than men about sex. So any time you succeed in getting a woman to go to bed with you, you feel like you’ve won some kind of lottery.
Conversely, getting a man into bed is like shooting fish in a barrel. It seems to me that men will have sex with almost anything. I read a great book about a guy who actually had sex with a pound of the liver that he got from a butcher shop in New Jersey. Let’s face it, men are not that choosy. They often just want something on their dick — even if it is a vital organ of a cow.
But women…well, we all know it takes a song and dance. It takes a little bit of romance.
When I have a woman in bed with me at last, and I remove her bra and I start enjoying her breasts. Then I slowly pull down her panties, and I see her naked in my bed for the first time…I almost orgasm immediately. I just have to sneakily put my hand down there on my clit and…
