The Challenges of the Divine Feminine in Twin Flame Relationships
Truly understanding yourself in transparent love.
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Why is a twin flame relationship considered the best spiritual practice?
In a twin flame relationship, there are no secrets; everything is transparent. Any form of concealment, emotional suppression, or even fleeting thoughts will be conveyed to your partner through various means such as dreams, sudden inspirations, and synchronicities.
In twin flame relationships, the feminine (not referring to physical gender) often encounters similar challenges. Let’s discuss some of them.
When a woman has too strong a sense of neediness in a relationship, it will inevitably ruin it.
Why does Yolk say this?
First, I hope those reading this article can calm down, refrain from judging themselves or their partner, and return to their inner selves during this reading process.
We are not talking about identifying and correcting your flaws, but rather reflecting on what you have done in the past. Why have we exposed so many non-existent needs? Remember, your sense of neediness is false; you don’t actually need anything.
Truly spiritually aware individuals understand that in a relationship, the focus should be on experiencing one’s own identity, not demanding the other person to fit into your script. When you play your role well, your partner will naturally appear as the character who matches you.
If you want to experience the ability to love others and accept love from others in this relationship, you won’t have such a strong sense of neediness. You will be willing to do things for your partner, but in reality, you are doing them for yourself because the other person doesn’t really exist.
In other words, what you are prepared to do in this relationship is the most important thing. The sense of neediness is actually false. When you are doing what you are supposed to do, it just so happens that your partner needs you to do that, and when you take action, your partner will respond accordingly. Their actions will perfectly meet your needs.
It may seem like everyone is giving something to the other person or receiving something from them, but in reality, it is a very equal relationship, with a flow of energy, rather than exploiting the other person’s value or needing them to do certain things. In this situation, you will feel that the relationship is very good, very happy, very simple, and without pressure. That is a healthy intimate relationship.
However, many people, especially women, often fail to achieve this. Why? Because you were too fake at the beginning, too guarded, and didn’t genuinely express yourself. What does it mean to be genuine? You can have a sense of neediness, but this neediness is something you express without ulterior motives.
You shouldn’t hide things from your partner from the beginning and then hope they behave a certain way. When they don’t meet your expectations, you start to resent them, accumulating a lot of dissatisfaction, and eventually, a small issue can explode into a big problem, leading to endless arguments. So, from the beginning, we need to genuinely express all our states and emotions.
Emotional needs are really about wanting your partner to stabilize your emotions. When you gently approach it this way from the start, no one will dislike you, including yourself. Anyone who interacts with you will feel relaxed.
Why accumulate these things and then have a quick burst of issues in a short period, suffocating the other person and turning yourself into someone who is discontent and complains about everything? That’s no fun. In this relationship, your identity becomes someone whose needs are not met. All your actions and interactions with others will make you realize your definition of yourself.
Understanding this principle, or having read this far, I believe everyone has calmed down. The key is not what we need to do, or what the other person needs to do, or what the other person does to be the right one, but who you are.
Have you returned to a state of peace? Have you felt an increase in energy? Do you realize that you have the ability to love others and accept love from others?
Remember, your twin flame is another version of yourself, your truest mirror; truly loving yourself is the foundation of everything.
