Twin Flame: Your Exclusive Mirror

Why does this relationship feel so unique? Actually, it has nothing to do with the other person.

Yolk Gemini
Twin Flame
4 min readJul 29, 2024

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The concept of twin flames is essentially about truly falling in love with yourself within a relationship.

The twin flame is the only true love in the three-dimensional world. No matter what you call this person, he is another you.

In the past two days, I figured out a point: we are not falling in love with someone else, because no one can really explain what love is, let alone who we love or what we love about them.

We are simply falling in love with ourselves in the context of the relationship.

Two days ago, while lying and chatting with my twin flame, I suddenly recalled this point.

I always have an inexplicable sense of familiarity with my twin flame. Every time I see him, I stare at him for a long time and feel a sense of excitement. I am sure I have seen him somewhere. When we make eye contact, I can never fully articulate what I like about him.

I abruptly redirected my attention to myself. I love myself at this moment, or in this relationship. I am being myself.

Therefore, I say that in relationships, especially intimate ones, you should pay more attention to your own behavior. Think more about what role you are experiencing in the relationship.

Don’t always try to change or influence others. You should enjoy who you are in the relationship. That is truly loving yourself.

The so-called twin flame relationship identity is to fall in love with yourself under this identity, not the other person in the relationship.

If you always focus on others besides yourself, you will always be in pain. You will always feel a sense of helplessness or want to control others’ actions. You will always feel unloved and blame the other person. But there is no perfect person in this world, including you.

When you look in the mirror and only see your flaws, you will continue to feel pain.

I believe we should give ourselves the opportunity to find another version of ourselves in the three-dimensional world, and love and trust them wholeheartedly. They are not here to make things difficult or torment us. They are here to complete us.

You should enjoy more of what you are doing in the relationship. Are you giving love? Are you loving?

Can you recognize that the twin flame you see is just another aspect of yourself? Everyone is actually a reflection of themselves. Being able to let go of all identities and roles and see the other person’s true nature will help you manage the relationship.

The twin flame relationship challenges this concept, as it can often be easier to recognize it in individuals we are not as close to. But the closer we are to someone, the more easily we fall into the traps designed by our minds, making the test more challenging.

Live with awareness, because the twin flame is your exclusive shadow. He allows you to see him, and he will never leave. He will be present as long as there is light. You don’t need to grasp it; you just need to go to the place you most desire, and he will naturally follow.

Whenever we fall in love with ourselves in the present moment, we unlock infinite energy. High energy attracts the people, events, and things around you. However, don’t let the joy of the relationship distract you from giving.

The twin flame relationship brings immense progress to humanity. If you only indulge in personal emotions and neglect the value you need to create, the relationship will undoubtedly encounter difficulties.

Pay attention to your thoughts, even the smallest ones. Your thoughts will create a situation for you to experience those feelings in this three-dimensional world.

When your desire for control is overwhelming and you want your twin flame to always think of you, it can also lead to conflicts between you.

In short, we must balance our relationships: love yourself, but do not let the scales tip in your favour.

Love is mutual. Love is reciprocal.

The twin flame relationship tests whether you truly believe you love yourself and have the courage to trust and love others.

When you do this, your other half will love you just as much as you love them.

At this time, you will experience the deep love that the three-dimensional world brings to you.

Messages for Twin Flames in Separation

Twin Flame needs new writers:

I encourage readers to share their stories as this method contains immense healing and growth energy; this is a submission guide suitable for new writers.

You never need to fear losing your twin flame.

Thanks for reading!

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Yolk Gemini
Twin Flame

Editor of Twin Flame. I share my twin flame experiences and the messages I've received here. My mission is to convey these most sincere messages and share love.