Twin Flames: Deep Thinking and the Relationship with the Divine Masculine
Is being passive really detrimental to you?
When you care a lot about the other person’s feedback in a relationship, you are passive.
Especially in twin flame relationships, we can sense each other a lot, far beyond ordinary relationships.
There are often many shared feelings between the two, making it hard not to care about the other person’s feedback.
In such times, if we fall into an unconscious state, we are more likely to lose ourselves.
Hearing this, you might think passiveness is detrimental.
However, I must admit that this logic is quite perplexing; it’s merely a phenomenon.
If you fall into this logic, you’ll need a way to break free. Next, we can consider why this happens and what consequences it may have.
When I consider the other person’s feedback, I can’t define who I am. To reflect on who I am, I need to see myself through others’ reactions to reflect what kind of person I am.
This indicates that I’m very confused at the moment, desperately wanting to see in the mirror whether I’m wearing a red or green outfit.
It’s probably this kind of situation, right?
At this moment, you may feel trapped in a state of powerlessness and passiveness, unable to define yourself. You will be entangled in this relationship and unable to truly enjoy it.
Even though it brought you happiness before, it will bring you pain now.
You have expectations for this relationship and blindly distract yourself every day with “What color am I wearing today?”
You lose yourself, unable to look down and see what color you’re wearing; unable to define yourself clearly.
Life becomes so passive that you can’t control relationships.
Then you find ways to know in advance what color you’re wearing in the mirror today. You try to control the other person to dictate what you wear.
Do you realize how twisted and amusing this logic is?
However, how many individuals are trapped in this situation?
Is it fun?
I believe you understand now.
So, how do we free ourselves from this passive state?
First, we need to recognize that relying on others’ feedback to define ourselves is a trap.
True self-definition is rooted in inner self-awareness and self-acceptance.
We need to learn to think independently and find what we truly like and want, rather than judging our values through others’ eyes.
Second, we need to cultivate absolute confidence in ourselves; we must believe 100% in ourselves.
No matter how the other person views you, even when facing the mirror version of yourself, you can maintain inner peace and confidence.
Our emotions are triggered when the mirrored self, also known as our twin flame, provides feedback.
We can know these emotions arise because we still have some self-rejection and self-judgment in us.
Besides letting ourselves be weak and entering a passive state, we can also consciously explore what our inner judgments are. We can also explore which parts of ourselves we don’t love enough.
Accept that part of yourself, trust yourself, and love yourself.
This inner strength will allow you to remain proactive in any relationship, no longer passively seeking approval.
Finally, learn to communicate and express yourself during difficult times.
We feel passive in relationships because we lack the courage to express our true feelings.
By communicating effectively, we can make the other person see our needs and establish a more fluid relationship with them.
The most interesting aspect of a twin flame relationship is super-safety.
You can confidently treat every challenge as a lesson in self-growth.
There is no need to worry about losing the other person.
Move forward with this feeling, and you will create everything you desire.
