Can You Use Self-Love to Get Your Twin Flame Back?

This is why I avoid the term “twin flame coach”

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Some coaches can help you find self-love, which is a very difficult state to achieve. But some people “use” the self-love journey as a means to an end: getting their twin flame back. This simply isn’t how it works. Self-love is for you, not for anyone else.

You can’t mastermind your way to getting them back. No coach out there can change your twin flame’s behavior or make them talk to you. If someone promises you this outcome of their services, even by teaching you to love yourself more, they’re selling snake oil.

Why I Don’t Like the Term “Twin Flame Coach”

I have taken on the label “twin flame coach” with reluctance. Over the years, I realize that people use the term to find me via internet searches, so I have accepted it. But I don’t believe one can be coached on this journey because it’s a paradox. You have met your twin flame, but you soon realize it’s really a story about you.

Some coaches can help you seek inner bliss. You may be able to establish equilibrium within yourself. This, to me, is the goal of incarnating on Earth, and it’s the ultimate pursuit. When you get there, you’ve won at life. You’ll be mentally free. And then it won’t matter…