Twin Flames as a Catalyst
A helpful perspective that could heal you.
I have a friend who has known me for a long time and who met his twin flame before I met mine. He met her before I even believed in twin flames. It was an obsession for him, and years later, he is still sifting through the after-effects.
He swings between the idea that she is incredibly significant in his life and the idea that her importance is minuscule and it is just an unhealthy infatuation. He likes to say, “She was a catalyst.” I’ve joked with him many times that he is in denial of the fact that she’s his twin flame. I think that he’s trying to explain it away so it’s not as painful. That’s because she wasn’t very nice to him, and like many twin flames, she has no obvious intention of ever being with him. He has to deal with that. Most of us have to deal with that.
Why would the universe introduce us to someone who completely knocks us off our feet, only to take this person away? This is the question that haunts us.
But there is something to be said for the idea that twin flames are catalysts. I won’t say they’re “just catalysts” because this diminishes the incredible significance of a catalyst in our lives. Catalysts are big.
