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How Do You Stay in Your Marriage After Betrayal?
By Vanessa Cardenas | Relationship Reset Expert | Still Married After Betrayal
Discovering your partner’s betrayal is a devastating blow, sending shockwaves through the very core of your being. In the wake of such betrayal, it’s natural to feel lost, angry, and overwhelmed. I sure did. I was a shell of myself for days…weeks…months. But amidst the chaos, there lies a powerful secret that I unearthed for reclaiming your life: focusing on yourself.
Now, I know what you’re thinking. Really? After Discovery Day (the day those betrayed learn that their lives will never be the same), I have to watch my partner’s every move. It’s all about them. But hear me out, because I speak from practical, real-world experience.
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First and foremost, it’s crucial to recognize that your partner’s actions are not a reflection of your worth or value as a person.
His betrayal is his own, and it is not your fault.
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With that clarity in mind, it’s time to shift your focus inward, towards your healing and growth.
As you redirect your attention away from your partner and towards yourself, something…
