5 REASONS MEN FORCED TO MARRY

Panji Samodro
Unique and Culture
Published in
2 min readDec 6, 2013

If you ask men, "what's the reason to get married?" Not all will answer for love, that's a fact! A study conducted by Match.com, a dating site Uncle Sam's country of origin, where they found 25% of men who married out of necessity. What is the reason for 25% of all men are "forced to get married?" Here's his review quoted from iniunik.web.id

1. Due to Other People Married.
silly One of the reasons mentioned in the article YourTango, married men because other people did as well. That makes sense, actually. This also happens in our communities, when peers are married, there are people who come desperate to get married. So where is the love? Love it there will probably be sometime in the future, or may never exist. But at least the status of married already bagged, and can still maintain prestige.

2. Fear of Loneliness.
reasons both men "forced marriage" is because of the fear of loneliness. Such men usually do not like to be alone and lonely, always looking for attention and affection, as well as being over possessive in her lover. From the outside it looks like a normal man and very macho, but no one knew he was someone who fractious and fragile.

3. Feeling Guilty and pity.
has been so long courtship, pity, too, if the girl was left in a position of "boyfriend" finally marry the man. Hmm ... not when it is so beloved, the love that already exists? Yeah right. Love it there, but if mentally a man not yet feel ready to get married, it means there is something wrong in the relationship. Maybe he is still in doubt, or he had experienced trauma. In another case, a girl marry a man because he felt guilty. Such has made ​​his girlfriend pregnant and pregnant with his child. Under these conditions, ultimately the reason he was forced to marry his girlfriend.

4. Parental insistence.
Period now you know there are parents who force their children and organize all crap things in a child's life, including dating. Well, among the 25% of the men there who claimed she was married because of pressure from parents, not entirely the desire of his heart.

5. Because the material.
Huh? No serious man who married for reasons of material? Believe it or not this is true. There is a man who wants to marry for economic life changed for the better. Generally they are married to a girl from her more established, thus he did not need to laboriously start from the bottom again

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