Findom: What it is, and what it isn’t
This article was written by Latex Barbie, a highly popular Female Dominatrix and Findom; she’s made a name for herself with stunning latex outfits and clips that match. This article has been republished with her permission, after it was originally published on Fetlife, where it was intended for a fetish inclined audience.
Everybody is always so curious about this subject.
It’s a hot topic, a buzzword that always has people perking up their ears. Is it real? What’s the deal? Do people really get off on sending hot girls their hard earned cash? The answer is YES. As unbelievable as it sounds, financial domination — or findom for short — is more real and alive than ever before.
You see, money is POWER. It is the most real, tangible form of power that exists on earth. When you give it to me, your power shifts to me, too.
The evidence is in plain sight on IWantClips.com, one of the newest and fastest growing clip sites for fetish content on the web, financial domination is the #1 fetish category every single month. Without fail, tributes pour in bigger and hornier than ever before. On August 29th, 2017, the #1 ranked model on the site made over 100k in just one day.
You may be asking yourself, what? who? when? how?
Many recent documentaries have tried to explain it, but always fall short in my opinion. It is the most elusive fetish to mentally wrestle with, also one of the most taboo, but also easily accessible to many, even vanillas — almost everyone has a credit card.
Do hot girls just throw on a bikini, bat their pretty eyes and get $500?
When I first began my own research into this mystifying corner of the internet, I’ll even admit that I was puzzled. Do hot girls just throw on a bikini, bat their pretty eyes and get $500? Ha, if it only it were that simple.
It wasn’t until after months of carefully researching, practising, reading about, and perfecting my philosophy of financial domination that it all became very clear.
So what is findom? Let’s begin with what it is NOT:
- findom is NOT paying for clips, phone calls, or a real time (RT) session (online or otherwise) with a Domme. That is simply a business transaction.
- findom is NOT spending $50 for the privilege to speak over kik to your fantasy girl. That is only common courtesy and respect that will actually get you noticed.
- findom is NOT spending $50 on a girl, period. That is a budget, which is the direct antonym to findom.
Is findom something that I expect every single submissive to do? Of course not, duh! I really couldn’t call myself a woman of fetish if that were true. Trust and believe that I have many other perverted fantasies and ideas of my own that need fulfilling, this one just happens to be my favourite.
What Findom IS:
- spending a large sum ($100 — $500 — $1000+) for the woman of your dreams for NOTHING IN RETURN.
- buying the woman of your dreams Louboutins, a YSL handbag, or whatever else her expensive luxury little heart desires, just to make her squeal with glee.
- spending for the pure pleasure of spending, making a girl smile/happy, spending because you can. Spending because she says so. Spending because it makes her horny.
You see, money is power. It is the most real, tangible form of power that exists on earth. When you give it to me, your power shifts to me, too.
Submission through cash is a powerful, potent drug. That’s why it may seem so overwhelming and scary to even fathom doing something like this, and why it is so taboo. Turns out, many people have the fantasy of being rich enough to do this, to spoil a hot girl just for fun, just to get her attention, but only a few actually are. Even fewer people would admit to being incredibly turned on by doing it.
Do you scoff at the idea of this?
Well, you’re probably too broke to indulge in it, that’s why. Which is fine! Not everyone has to be into every fetish, obviously. If you aren’t too broke, are hoarding $100k, and couldn’t possibly fathom giving away any to the wonderful women in your life who bring you pleasure? Well, you may actually be a piece of shit human, just saying.
If you can afford to spoil her and make her feel special, and you don’t, well, just get away. Far far away. You’re gross. You don’t get it, and you probably never will. I pity the poor woman you end up with, if you can even land one, asshole.
In summary, this should give you a general quick education of the concepts and ideas behind this mysterious fetish.
Opening your mind to the idea that many, many people enjoy and strive to play hard, edgy, and expensively this way. Could you imagine the intensity of a $1000 orgasm? To be made to stroke, click, pay, and then lock up your dick for the night with the bluest balls of your life? To get on your knees, wallet open, in front of your computer? To loop hours upon hours of clips, edging and getting hornier, building up the courage to finally submit your first $100 tribute?
Hundreds of people do this every day, secretly and silently submitting with the “click” of a credit card. Let these ideas marinate in your kinky brain, and realize that cash might be the most powerful aphrodisiac out there.
Once again, this article was written by Latex Barbie, and was originally intended for a kink oriented audience. It has been republished here with her permission, with minor edits made by Mistress Emelia.
If you’re curious about financial domination, why not just send Latex Barbie your first $100 tribute?
Update 31st August, 2017: Photo replaced with image from a different dominatrix, in accordance with request for the change by the original photo’s copyright holder.
