#UXRConf Notes: Vivianne Castillo on Ethics & Power: Understanding the Role of Shame in UX Research

“Guilt is a about a specific behaviour. Shame is about the self”

Gigi W
2 min readMar 3, 2018

Vivianne just wrapped up an amazingly insightful talk around the importance of balancing your shame and guilt, and recognizing them as a responsible User Experience Researcher!

Originally from Chicago, this is Vivianne’s first time in Toronto and Canada! 🍁 Here are a few highlights from her talk.

You can’t be empathetic if you’re not vulnerable.

Highlights 🌟

  • Vivianne transitioned from being a counsellor to a UX Researcher with help from her mentor who told her to find a creative hobby that has a beginning and an end. That’s how she discovered UX and she’s been in love with it every since 😍
  • Shared four important qualities of empathy from Dr. Teresa Wiseman, Nursing Scholar — Perspective-taking, staying out of judgement, recognizing emotion in others, and communicating that you understand that emotion

🤔 She challenged us to reflect and think about ways to improve our craft:

  • How do you interact with shame? What are some of the lies you believe?
  • How do you show your users they’re not alone in that moment of shame?
  • Do some self reflection, and think about how you commonly respond to shame in and out of your workplace.
  • Before you sit with a participant, take 5–10 minutes before your session and ask yourself “What are things I’m bringing in?”

In closing, she left us with this quote from Brené Brown:

‘We can choose courage or we can choose comfort, but we can’t have both. Not at the same time.’

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