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Everyone needs one ‘happy’ friend

How a college friend proved to me that birds of a feather do not have to flock together

I watched it happen in stages before I realized this seemed to be a pattern. Some people really don’t like it when you’re happy.

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Example 1: The person who is irritated by compliments

Let’s chat about my oddball thoughts on family, relationships and activism — with a dose of comedy, too.

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Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Check out her 3 Medium pubs: I Do See Color, Tickled and We Need to Talk. (Doggone World and Homegrown are now on Substack.) Visit Shamontiel.com

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