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I’ll never wear weave but relaxers don’t bother me

Why I keep walking the straight-hair tight rope

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Anytime I left WERQ dance classes or yoga, I put my hair in the same presentable style to head back to my desk — a brushed-back ponytail and a small lock of hair toward the right, front area that I can flip behind my ear. It was the easiest way for my hair to look “done” without going through a lot…




Let’s chat about my oddball thoughts on family, relationships and activism — with a dose of comedy, too.

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Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Check out her 3 Medium pubs: I Do See Color, Tickled and We Need to Talk. (Doggone World and Homegrown are now on Substack.) Visit Shamontiel.com

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