Stop enabling liars

They can only upset you if you’re willing to believe them

Shamontiel L. Vaughn
We Need to Talk
Published in
5 min readJan 4, 2020
Photo credit: fbigao/Pixabay

When I saw him on a dating site last winter, my eyes lit up. I sent a message to him: “Haven’t I dated you before?” It was almost two decades ago and I definitely thought he would’ve been married with some kids by now. Although he did have a daughter, he was as single as a dollar bill, judging from his profile. But he still looked…

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Shamontiel L. Vaughn
We Need to Talk

When I'm not writing about news, politics and relationships on "We Need to Talk" or cracking jokes on "Tickled," find me on Substack. Visit Shamontiel.com