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We Need to Talk

Stop enabling liars

They can only upset you if you’re willing to believe them

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When I saw him on a dating site last winter, my eyes lit up. I sent a message to him: “Haven’t I dated you before?” It was almost two decades ago and I definitely thought he would’ve been married with some kids by now. Although he did have a daughter, he was as single as a dollar bill, judging from his profile. But he still looked…

Let’s chat about my oddball thoughts on family, relationships and activism — with a dose of comedy, too.

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Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Check out her 3 Medium pubs: I Do See Color, Tickled and We Need to Talk. (Doggone World and Homegrown are now on Substack.) Visit Shamontiel.com

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